A personal comic from your birthday
The Situationship Reading
Not dating. Not nothing. Bom and Yeon on why you're still in it, and what you actually want.
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What's inside · 11 illustrated chapters
- You, in one page
- Why you're still in it (it's not them)
- Where this really is (not where you hope)
- What you actually want (not what you text)
- How you read mixed signals at 2am
- Too much of one thing, none of another
- The talk, in your words
- Your blind spot (Yeon has notes)
- You and them
- Your line, and when you've crossed it
- However it ends, you're fine. Here's why
Inside
Chapters
- You, in one pageWho you are when you like someone, in one page. Bom and Yeon read it straight from your birthday.
- Why you're still in it (it's not them)The real reason you keep saying "let's see where it goes". It's a bit embarrassing. Yeon found it anyway.
- Where this really is (not where you hope)How long it's been and who texts first, and what that pattern really says.
- What you actually want (not what you text)Not the chill version. The thing you'd ask for if you knew the answer was yes.
- How you read mixed signals at 2amYour decoding habit, the theories you build from one late reply, and a better way to find out.
- Too much of one thing, none of anotherWhat you have way too much of, what you're missing, and what that does to you here.
- The talk, in your wordsHow to ask "what are we" in a way that sounds like you, plus what to say if they go vague.
- Your blind spot (Yeon has notes)Do you push too hard or give too much? Yeon's notes on your blind spot, and what steadies you.
- You and themYour type and theirs: where you click, and where you keep clashing.
- Your line, and when you've crossed itThe one thing you keep accepting that you shouldn't, and what to do when it happens again.
- However it ends, you're fine. Here's whyWhat comes next, yes or no. Bom gets the last word on this one.
Who it's for
For anyone who's heard "let's just see where it goes" one too many times. For anyone who rereads the last text for tone, or drafts the "what are we" message and never sends it. Add their birthday and you get a chapter on how your two types meet. Everything else is about you, because you're the one reading this at 1am.
11 illustrated chapters. Yours depends on your chart, your answers and the chapter on the two of you. Opens as a vertical webtoon with Bom and Yeon. Three pillars from your birth date, or four if you add your birth time; no 10-year luck cycles (대운).
Questions
FAQ
Why does it ask for a second birthday?
Your birthday drives the whole reading. Theirs adds one chapter on how your two types meet: where you click and where you keep clashing. It can't tell you what they feel or what they'll do. Nothing honest can.
Will it tell me if they like me back?
No. Nobody can read another person's feelings from a date of birth. Yeon would roast anyone who claimed to. What you get is you: why you stay, what you actually want, how you read mixed signals, and how to ask "what are we" in words that sound like you.
I don't know their birthday. Is that a problem?
Not at all. You can read the whole thing without it. Every chapter is built from your own chart. Their birthday only adds the one chapter about the two of you.
So is this fortune telling?
No. We use saju as a personality language for looking at yourself, a bit like MBTI with about a thousand years of practice behind it. It's for fun and for self-reflection. It doesn't predict anything.
Will it tell me when to have the talk?
No dates, no deadlines, no "before it's too late". It helps you pick your own moment and find your own words. The timing is yours.
How much of a full saju reading is this?
A full Korean saju reading uses four pillars: year, month, day and hour, eight characters in all. From your birth date alone we read three pillars, which is how many Koreans read saju when the hour is unknown. Add your birth time and we read all four. We don't include your 10-year luck cycles (대운), which traditional readers use for timing and which also depend on a male or female setting we don't ask for. Solar terms are converted to the time zone you were born in. When a reading looks at two people, it compares your Day Masters and notes your day branches. A traditional compatibility reading (궁합) compares both whole charts.
How long is the reading?
11 illustrated chapters. Each chapter opens with a scene and then Bom and Yeon talk it through. What each chapter says depends on your chart and answers. Read it in one go or a chapter at a time, and save it as a PDF to keep.
What are the questions before the reading?
Up to three, one tap each, all optional: how long has this been going on; who usually reaches out first; what do you want from it. Each answer changes a section of the reading. Skip any of them and that section is written for not knowing. Your answers stay in your browser and in your reading link.
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